Skimming stones
Back home for our evening meal, a quick change and off out for Halloween fun. Owen had been trying to let me send him and Sam out on their own with a group of older children. He hadn't liked the fact that I had still insisted an adult accompany them and we had some difficult meltdowns to deal with.
However, this was all forgotten on the night and he realised everyone pretty much had parents with them. Many of our neighbours had really put on great shows and the boys decided we needed to up our decorating ideas for next year.
Owen as a scary clown.
After calling on the neighbours and their friends houses. The children lay in wait with candy at our house. They had a great time scaring people and handing out sweets, things pretty much wind down here by 7:30/8pm, so we could still get the children to bed , in a giddy state, at a reasonable time.
The next morning there was a lot of resistance to their activities. We managed to watch science videos about light. The sun and Earth, how eyes respond to light and a demonstration of a water prism.
Afterwards Sam and Owen worked on maths using RM. it was really difficult to get them to do anymore and since they have ju jitsu later , I decided a better use of my time would be to plan our next lot of activities, do the shopping and catch up on chores.
Oh my gosh, I cannot tell you how hard this morning was. We had planned to visit friends in the afternoon but I had to cry off . Owen was really struggling and sabotaged quite a bit of the day's planning with his need to control everything. This upset Sam and both of us got tired of being shouted at. After a sit down and talk with Owen I managed to get him properly started ...I really felt like walking away but despite appearances at the beginning , we ended up having a good day.
Owen has asked me to buy a sea creatures drawing journal. However, when it came he had a complete panic about starting it. Owen having a panic means him yelling and slamming doors. Eventually, I managed to persuade him to give it a try...because he did way better than he expected ( especially when he read the directions instead of assuming *long suffering sigh*) ..he started to enjoy it.
He loved smudging the softer graphite pencils and I showed him how to use an eraser as a tool.
Then he filled in the spaces left out on the next pages.
Again he panicked initially, but I showed him how to get started and he was off.
His finished page with completed dolphin. I have explained about different pencils and what 2B etc means. He found the pencils easier to use than the graphite , so I will sort a selection of drawing pencils out for him next time.
We also played DObble..which helps improve concentration..and is good fun.
Sam chose to do some Brain Games ..here he is making all lines add to 15. He took some time to finish it and then looked very happy to manage to complete it.
Owen decided he wanted to make vegetable sushi.
So I prepped the ingredients for him and we watched a tutorial.
He scoffed the lot and afterwards asked if we could order more supplies from the Chinese supermarket. We placed an order online for more seaweed sheets, sushi rice, pickled ginger, black sesame seeds and wasabi ( should be interesting lol).
In the evening Blokeys parents came over as we needed to go out. Whilst we were gone they played many board games, including Timeline, UNO and Dobble. They also said to the children that if they hand wrote a letter each week, they would send extra pocket money. The children seemed keen but I explained it could go either way, as both struggle to write and prefer typing...we shall see. Owen is already stressing out about it.
The next day we played Wordfued together.
Sam and I
Sam and Owen wrote their first letters to their Grand parents. I did find it upsetting watching Owen struggle through it..he wants to please them so much but his dyspraxia makes writing incredibly hard.
We started looking at this book.
He wrote a list of things he wants to learn and I helped him write out a list of books to look for in the library . He found being specific about subjects hard to understand , so I explained how we could narrow things down more.
Sam did a similar exercise ( as we are planning on visiting the library tomorrow) and had similar confusion over how to phrase his requirements but we got there together .
We discussed and made note of some books to look for.
He wrote a list of his interests and chatted as he did a spot of colouring.
They worked really hard today despite some of the new things being a little challenging.
Sam started with his maths today.
Owen is researching his Christmas list..he's checking twice...
http://www.mymundaneandmiraculouslife.com/foodie-fridays-easy-peesy-french-bread/
The next day Blokey and I needed to really crack on with the work on the camper , as his holiday is rapidly approaching and we would really like to go away in it that week.
Whilst we were doing this, the boys played outside until it rained..then challenged each other and a friend to online games.